Control the Urge

Challenge thoughts behind urges

Learn techniques to challenge the thoughts fueling an urge and find ways to manage or resist it.

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How it works
1

Describe your urge or impulse

2

Explore the situation through tailored questions

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Receive customized insights and action steps

Example
Here's what you might expect when using Control the Urge

I have an urge to eat junk food when I'm stressed, even when I'm not hungry

  • What usually triggers this urge? (stress, boredom, specific situations)
  • What thoughts justify acting on this urge? ('I deserve this', 'Just this once', etc.)
  • How strong is this urge typically on a scale of 1-5?

Understanding:

Your urge to eat junk food seems triggered by stress and justified by thoughts like 'I deserve this comfort' or 'I need something to feel better.' This creates a cycle where stress leads to eating for emotional relief, but may not address the underlying stress.

Cognitive Strategies:

  • Challenge the 'I deserve this' thought by asking: 'What do I really deserve? Perhaps stress relief that doesn't work against my health goals?'
  • Examine the evidence: 'Does eating junk food actually reduce my stress, or does it often lead to guilt and more stress?'
  • Reframe 'I need this' to 'I want this, but I don't need it to cope with stress'

Behavioral Strategies:

  • Use the '10-minute delay' technique - tell yourself you can have it in 10 minutes, then reassess
  • Keep healthier stress-relief alternatives ready: herbal tea, a short walk, deep breathing
  • Change your environment when the urge hits - leave the kitchen or go to a different room

Motivational Insight:

Remember that the urge will pass whether you act on it or not. By choosing not to act on it, you're building your ability to handle stress in ways that align with your goals.

Why use Control the Urge?
  • Gain control over impulses that work against your goals
  • Understand the thoughts and triggers behind your urges
  • Develop practical techniques for resisting unwanted behaviors
  • Build confidence in your ability to make conscious choices

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